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Tuesday, May 21, 2013

A Deeper Look at Cinderella



Cinderella, or the little glass slipper by Charles Perrault
& Aschenputtel by the Brothers Grimm



*I read these classic fairy tales in the Classics of Children’s Literature (6th Edition) by John W. Griffith and Charles H. Frey. Published by Pearson in Upper Saddle River, NJ in 2005.

Perrault’s version: Cinderella’s mother is not given much thought but her father takes a second wife and soon Cinderella falls victim to the nasty behavior of a stepmother and two stepsisters. They take her belongings and leave her with nothing but the cinders near the chimney. The King holds a ball and while she is forbidden to go, Cinderella must help her stepsister get ready for the grand event. Cinderella is incredibly kind to her stepsisters despite their mocking and teasing. Once, the stepsisters have left for the ball, Cinderella begins to cry but soon after her fairy godmother appears and turns ordinary objects and creatures into a grand coach and horses and provides her with a beautiful gown, so that she may go to the ball. Cinderella is the most beautiful lady at the ball and wins the attention of the Prince but she must rush off before midnight. Similar events take place on the second night of the ball, only Cinderella leaves behind one glass slipper. The Prince sets out to find the lady whose feet fit into this elegant glass slipper. The two stepsisters try and fail and everyone is quite shocked when Cinderella fits the slipper. She marries the Prince and forgives her stepsisters for their unkind behavior.

Reaction: Perrault focuses heavily on the fashion and external beauty in his version. Cinderella seems to overcome her had life because she is made beautiful not necessarily from her good nature. I prefer the Grimms’ version.

The Grimms’ version: Aschenputtel’s mother dies and Aschenputtel is heartbroken but does her best to be pious and good so that her mother and God will always be watching over her. Her father remarries shortly after the death and the stepmother and two stepsisters are relentlessly evil, abusive, and nasty to Aschenputtel…the father fails to notice any of the ill behavior. The father goes to a fair and brings back requested items for his daughters. The stepsisters wanted fine clothes and jewels and Aschenputtel requested the first twig that struck her father’s hat. The hazel twig the father brings for Aschenputtel is planted at her mother’s grave and as she weeps for her mother, the twig grows into a magical tree that produces wish-granting birds. Aschenputtel calls on the birds’ help when her evil stepmother and stepsisters throw lentils into the fire so that Aschenputtel will not have time to go to the ball. However, she does complete the task and has time to go but her stepmother lies and forbids her to go. The birds bring Aschenputtel a beautiful dress of gold and silver and she attends the ball for three nights…each time escaping at midnight and hiding from the Prince to keep her identity hidden. The father cuts down Aschenputtel’s hiding places in an attempt to find the girl the Prince seeks but she always manages to flee and the father cannot believe his dirty daughter would be the one. On the third night, the Prince leaves pitch on the steps and one her golden shoes is left behind. The Prince seeks to marry the lady whose foot fits in the shoe, so the evil stepsisters cut their foot to cram it inside. The birds give away their dishonesty and eventually Ashenputtel tries on the gold shoe and produces the matching shoe and marries the Prince. The evil stepsisters have their eyes pecked out at Aschenputtel’s wedding as a punishment for the ill behavior.

Reaction: While some might say that this version is too harsh or graphic for children, I believe otherwise. Children are very well aware of the injustices and cruel nature of the world and the Brothers Grimm should be admired for not sugar coating life in their tales. The stepsisters were relentlessly cruel and there are consequences for committing evil behavior. I am also appalled that the father did not stick up for his daughter but I do think this is an accurate depiction of how life was lived in the time the tale was written.

In addition to my reaction, I will share my written response to my History of Children’s Literature Professor’s discussion question: As thematic motifs, do you think “recognizing the loved one” and/or “going down to get up” function in a different way in Grimms' than in Perrault’s tale?

Fairy tales typically highlight major themes or motifs as a means of emulating familiar rites of personal development. Perrault’s Cinderella and the Brothers Grimms’ Aschenputtel are no different—motifs are in great abundance in both versions of this classic tale.

The “recognizing the loved one” motif is more easily identified in the Brothers Grimms’ Aschenputtel. It seems logical that the loved one would be Aschenputtel but she receives no love or care from her living “family” members. Instead, Aschenputtel’s deceased mother plays the role of the loved one. Aschenputtel “went every day to her mother’s grave and wept” (p. 56). Her mother was not only caring, good but also religious. The Brothers Grimms’, like many other classical children’s authors sought to teach children and adult about personal development and this religious aspect sends a message that God looks after those who are good.

Aschenputtel’s love for her deceased mother and obedience in keeping her promise to be “pious and good” (p. 56) was rewarded with the magic of the hazel twig. The hazel twig not only brings a fantastical element to the tale but also provides an object or symbol for the mother to be recognized. Aschenputtel’s fallen tears for her mother causes the twig to blossom into a magical tree that produces wish granting birds. More specifically, doves, which have religious significance to further hone in on that message of being “pious”. In Perrault’s version, religion is not intertwined in the function of this motif.

“Going down to get up” is without a doubt my favorite of the fairy tale motifs. As much as I enjoy Disney movies, their versions of classic fairy tales give an impression that success is granted through beauty and love. Perrault and the Brothers Grimms clearly establish the theme that one must first struggle before achieving success. This message/motif not only more accurately reflects the rites of personal development but also emphasizes a pattern of resiliency, which many children can connect with or at least be empathic to. For example, in Perrault’s version, Cinderella sleeps in the “garret” (p. 17) on top of all her other duties and chores. According to The Free Dictionary [Online], a garret is a cramped, possibly unfinished attic with a pitched roof. Clearly, this is a poor location for a girl to sleep and a symbol of Cinderella’s lowly position in her family. “Going down” is again emphasized, as she must help her stepsisters prepare for the ball she cannot attend. However, because Cinderella stayed true to her “rare goodness and sweetness of temper” (p.17) throughout the downs, she was able to go “up” with the help of her fairy godmother. The Brothers Grimms’ version reiterates the same functionality of the “going down to get up” motif as Perrault. Case in point, Aschenputtel is held “down” by her grief, the relentless demands and abuse from her stepmother and stepsisters, and the cluelessness of her father before she is able to “get up” and win the love of the Prince.



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Wednesday, May 15, 2013

The Time Traveler’s Wife



The Time Traveler’s Wife


Niffenegger, A. (2003). The time traveler’s wife. San Francisco, CA: MacAdam/Cage. 

Genre: Fantasy/Science Fiction (Adult)

Henry is a charming librarian…and a time traveler. He doesn’t hop into some spaceship or anything; in fact, he cannot control it at all. He sporadically travels through time—both forwards and backwards. Clare is Henry’s wife. She first meets Henry as a little girl and spends her entire life devoted to him despite his issues with time traveling. It is a story filled with both love and tragedy.

Reaction: I have been to Chicago a handful of times and have never experienced it like Henry and Clare. I really must visit the library, museums, and other places mentioned in the book! 

The beginning was a little slow for me (it took me months to get past the first 100 pages) and then BANG! I could not put the book down. For me, Niffenegger’s structure was hard to adjust to. For example, one minute you are reading from child Clare’s point of view than the next, adult Henry’s view and back and forth across multiple ages in their lives. I think Niffenegger wants her readers to empathize with how scatterbrained Henry must feel but it was too much for my brain to sort out until I learned enough of the story to follow along.

My heart goes out to Clare and Henry, what a heart-wrenching way to live. The book made me think about how all events, no matter how small they may seem, influences our lives. The little things and small mannerisms meant the most to both Clare and Henry. When you think about it, it truly is a blessing to remain in the present at all times. The past is haunting and knowing the future taints the present.

A few things to note: The language and sex might be offensive to some but it is a book for adults and adults are aware of these things. The movie doesn’t do the book justice, but it usually works that way. 

My hope: I would like to see a sequel written from the perspective of another time traveler. I won’t spoil anything but if you read the book, you know whom I mean. 

I originally rated this 3 stars but kept thinking about the characters and bumped it up to 4 Stars

"Legend"



Lu, M. (2011). Legend. New York, NY: G. P. Putnam's Sons.

Genre: Dystopian Fiction (YA)
 
In this dystopian novel, the United States is no more. The Republic is a new nation and it seems its main focus is war. War with neighboring nations and war within its own structure. 15-year-old Day was born into one of the poorer families and spends his time rebelling against the Republic. Day’s antics are extremely popular and he is a criminal to some and a legend to others. 15-year-old June was born into one of the wealthier families and spends her time preparing for a respected role in the Republic’s military. June’s skills and high test scores have deemed her the nation’s prodigy. The death of June’s brother, Metias, brings the legend and prodigy together for a story full of action, twists, and of course, romance…

Reaction: Marie Lu's approach to this story enticed me. I was immediately drawn to the characters and their emotion kept me hooked throughout the entire book. June and Day each have a distinct voice and Lu shares each of their point of views flawlessly. The distinct fonts and structured chapters help Lu to carry this out successfully. June and Day both express their thoughts in an intense, emotionally charged story full of pain, loss, rebellion, and hope. The Republic is cruel and while more explanation is needed, Lu has developed a dystopian world that frighteningly believable. 

 5 stars

*Legend is the first of a series; stay tuned for my review of its next installments.

Thursday, May 9, 2013

Evermore



Noel, A. (2009). Evermore. New York, NY: St. Martin’s Griffin.

Genre: Fantasy, Paranormal, Young Adult

Evermore, is the first book in a series of six novels. Ever Bloom is the sole survivor of a tragic accident that took the lives of her parents, younger sister (Riley), and pet dog. In the process of losing everything she loved, Ever gained something…something powerful. She copes with this newly acquired power by trying to hide in sweatshirts and filling her ears with music…strategies that were kinda-sorta working until Damen comes along. He’s everything Ever has been missing but he is a mystery and he’s far from a savior—actually, he makes Ever’s life even more complicated.

Reaction: After finishing book two in this series, I was able to better appreciate some aspects of Evermore. Honestly, this book couldn’t stand alone because there wasn’t much growth or development but that was probably the intention of the author. Noel wants her readers to stick it out for the entire series.

Ever seems clueless to life sometimes. I suppose it is acceptable given the amount of loss, grief, and change she has gone through but it is frustrating as the reader. Ever did begin to grow and learn more about herself but I can only hope she will continue to become more aware of her surroundings as the series continues. 

Ever and Damen. They have a “love at first sight” kind of connection that is a tad bit unrealistic but it is maybe believable given the circumstances of the book’s plot. 

Miles and Riley were my favorite characters. Why? Because they were the most authentic and they both add humor to the heavy plot. I do not care for Haven at all. Noel might be doing some foreshadowing by better developing the minor characters now and coming back to them later in the series. Noel’s writing is simple yet descriptive, especially when it comes to Summerland and other settings. 

This is my first paranormal read. I have avoided the genre because I wanted no part in the “Twilight” bandwagon but I am drawn to this series because of the worlds, dimensions, and fantastical aspects...not necessarily for the characters or plot. I would recommend others to give this book a try.